In the entertainment industry, there is a friend who is VERY important
in my life, but now this person is not in the entertainment industry...this
person is Joe... Ngai Jan.
Why is he so important? Well, he's one of my many good close friends,
but most of them are my classmates, and so after I started working,
I met him and he can be considered as someone who I can talk to about
all kinds of things. If we have any problems, we can talk together
I first met him in an RTHK (Hong Kong Radio) television program where
he and I were the hosts of the show. In the beginning, I guess I had
an assumption or misunderstanding that he was haughty (proud, conceited,
Out of all my friends, he is the most intelligent...his mind spins
the fastest... 'jui yau gin chit sing' (possessing the ability to
come up with new ideas and methods) and he is the friend who really
knows how to think. Whether I have a problem at work or a personal
problem, or when I'm feeling sad, I will often look to him for solutions,
because when a person needs to 'so foo' (open up your feelings...like
spilling your guts), you need to find a friend who has 'gin chit sing'
to solve the problem and to make you feel better. And after talking
on the phone with him, I will feel happier.
So that's why we often see each other and keep in touch. And we both care
about each other.
I really admire him. Why? Because it's 'ho laan dak' (rare, not easily achieved)
to be so young to start his own business by using his own hands and money.
People say that we are dating and then we separated and how do I see it?...well,
I think that our good friendship won't be affected by rumors. (remember,
this was said by Vivian back in '93)
In whatever way you say it, between us, we both 'ho wu seung gwaan sam'
(really care and worry about each other) and 'wu seung jiu goo' (take care
of each other). So at this moment, he is my most important male 'ji gei'
(good close friend).
In the future, will Joe and I have a love relationship?...no one knows.
I think anybody has a chance. 'Tin yi on paai' (Let fate plan it).